She wants the child den she dosnt?

hello i have a ex girlfriend who says shes pregnent wit my child at first i didnt blieve her bcause dis happnd b4 but then i brought her to the doctor she agreed and we went the dok done a test weighed her and wat ever else and confirmed dat she was 3months gone but before all this she was beat on having an abortion wich i didnt agree wit and rang her drunk 1 nite an let her no how i felt bout wat she was doing wasnt a happy convorsation words wer exchanged she flew over to get it done den came back saying she couldnt do it i never gave any money and im not loaded outa wrk at the min so wasnt about moneyin anyway she den said she wanted to keep the child but didnt want me part of its life and agreed to go to the doctor with me just to prove she is actully pregnent point proved urine sample did dat dis was last week and since den we have been able to talk witout arguing and i was coming around to becoming a father and she was coming round to having me around not in a relationship with the girl until tonite wen she rings me and starts going on about the rite decison and reken me head all over agin bout an abortion she dosnt know wat she wants and tinks her lifes over just as i was getting used to the idea and accepting it she ***** me head up agin i dont no wat to do i told her not to contact me until she nos wat shes gna do shes 3months gone going 4 its a mess heads reked any answers from people who have been in this postion helpfull i asked her to go and talk to sum1 and ill pay4it or go wit her but shes mad