Speaking as a Christian...is our religious faith hypocritical with its view on ity? ?

It's not hypocritical to call sin out for what it is, and uality is most certainly sin. The problem is lust. Yes, all are guilty of that. Thankfully God has established a special covenant for us called marriage, which is intended for a man and a woman, so that we can be ually fulfilled (and happy) without sinning.